So what am I to you?
So, here I am, sitting on my bed. And continuously typing without knowing exactly what to write. As I scrolled down my dashboard, I realized I followed quite a number of fashion bloggers and then I came a across a post, it belongs to one of my friends. So I read it, why not? Clicked on the title link and it directed me to her page. So I began to read it, she said something about friends becoming strangers and so on. By the way, this has nothing to do with the writer of the blog. Take this as a general point of view, and no, I am not trying to find faults. It just reminds me of how good things USED to be.
In my opinion, what she said might be true, I said might. Friends, we need friends. It all depends on how you choose them. Some goes along well and some are not, once you get to know their true colors, you might want to leave them or stick together through thick and thin! I am tired of these so-called-dramas, we do need a bit of it to spice up our life, but too much of it, definitely it will bring tears to your eyes. And a broken heart. I have a few cases in which reminds me of how friends are the ones who kept you "alive". I still have. But some, nah, they come and go. You can't blame them, because some people are not meant to please each other. Fire and ice don't go well. If you want people to please you all the time, then perhaps you should enhance your sense of tolerance. I am not perfect, I make mistakes, I ignore people, I do a lot of hurtful things, I should say.
Friends eventually will become strangers, unless you get along with them so well. And desperate to get some companion. So why should we care about having friends? Because they're the ones who bring fireworks to your life. Tolerate more, and soon you'll realize what you should have realized a long time ago. Don't blame others, but blame yourself first. Is making nice to others a solemn responsibility? I would say I have an alter ego, if I feel like being a total ass, oh please, accept me for who I am. HAHA. But I can be a total angel too.
Sigh. A friendship that once was so close now becomes just a vague memory.
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