I was 16 in this picture
Have you ever tasted perfection? Have you ever been loved? Well, of course. Everyone did. But recently, I asked a friend of mine, have you ever loved someone or been loved by someone? I was quite shocked when he said that he has never been loved nor loved someone. In this context, it means a lover, your partner. Everyone should experience how it’s like to love. I bet he must have his own reason, it’s a personal choice. I still love you mate, you’ll find the right one, it is just a matter of time.
When you’re growing up, you fall in and out of love with so MANY PEOPLE FOR SO MANY DIFFERENT REASONS. We never really stop to think about it, because by that point you’re already so wrapped up in lust with this “amazingly sweet, refreshingly new person” and the thought of them just never being there again is UNBEARABLE for us. Maybe if we really opened our eyes we’d actually have less to bitch and whine about after it all falls apart. But then again if we were so aware of our partners faults, we’d probably never have loved them in the first place, because love is blind after all.
I believe teenage love, is probably the most confusing, frustrating, and TERRIBLE thing to endure. It’s untamable and HURTS like hell! Yet at the end of the bullshit we put our young hearts through, it still was the most spectacular time in our entire lives. It was the only time that being in love was ever really be worth all that emotionally heartache and uncontrollable hopes of forever and always. Because when we were young and in LOVE we get to be free. Free on how we choose to love or who we choose to give our love to. And to be able to love without punishment is the most priceless thing there is in life. And life without love.. Blind or not; would just be a dull and uninteresting place wouldn’t it?
Have a good day everyone,
Mawar Amin
