LIFE

Thats why they say "life begins at the end of your comfort zone" because when your life starts to fall apart, you will think of the things that you'll never think of

1. Apologizing because ego is more powerful than the word "sorry"

2. Grateful because greed takes over control when your life is lavish

3. God, as you forget that it is Him that made you happy and it is Him that you turn to when your life falls apart and it is Him that you blame when you didn't get what you want. 

Here's an example, imagine in 10 years, you're married and your kids won't listen to you. You said, "no, you can't go out, stay at home and study" and your kids will be like "you're being such a bitch right now!" and no matter how much you love your kids, you just have to punish them. 

Well, ask this to yourself, who created you? Who created your parents? The answer is obvious. It's God. The One and Only. So whatever happens in your life, when something starts to go wrong, don't blame God, blame yourself. Because God is trying to teach all of us a lesson. The above example is just a metaphore, the God is like your mother, when you make mistakes, your mother scolds you in order to teach you a lesson. So did God. They say "the heaven is placed under your mum's feet", yes, its true, respect your mother and you shall be placed in a place you can never imagine, a place which is better than a paradise. A place which places all the good people. 

Don't cry when your life starts to fall apart because there's always a reason why it happened in the first place. Apologize to those innocent heart you broke. Be grateful of what you have, you'll be a happier person. And always remember who created you and brought you to this world. 

Get A Life And Identity, Fix That Personality.

P/S This is lovely. Jessica Simpson Danny Shoes

While others are blogging just to impress, I blog just to express. While others are busy showing off what they did during their holidays, I am just going to keep it down low. Well, it's a personal choice so write whatever you want, tell your readers what they wanna hear. So now am I being judgmental? Hmm, I want to share with you guys a story. About someone who just can't stop copying other people. Sigh. You know what I mean. BUT here's a piece of advice, when you caught a person who constantly copying what you wear or like or even do stuffs that you like, you should be proud of yourself, you have successfully owned a minion/follower. It is not wrong to adore or be adored. Look at it this way, you're a role model.

Some might find it's intimidating. I have a few cases which I can probably relate to this. Most of my friends back then (when I was in high school) they kept on saying that this particular person bla bla bla copies me blablabla. Yeah yeah, I totally feel you mate and I know it sucks. It sucks because that particular person don't really talk to you and sometimes ignores you and stuff and yet they wore the same clothes as you did, or even have common interest with you. Annoying much? Why bother?

So in my opinion, this kind of people actually adores you and they might be a little jealous of you and eventually when they are annoyed with your existence, they will say mean stuffs about you, things that are not right. They are actually intimidated by your existence but deep in their heart, they're praying to be just like you but you see, that thick wall of ego ruins everything. But sometimes, admirers can be very adorable too :) It's like they're your motivators. They look up to you, look forward to what you're gonna wear, aww, I think that's cute. At one point it is kind of like a compliment. At another point it's more like a stalker. Creepy much. Well, I'd give a ten to my own theory, thank you.

Whatever, that is not what I am trying to pull here (REALLY?). Actually, the story, it is more to something that I have been thinking for a very long time and it kinda made me wonder why in the world people are so busy judging other people, in other word, judgmental. Yeah, its a very strong word indeed. And it got me thinking why people just can't leave you alone, leave you to whatever you wanna do. Hell yeah, it's your life and somehow people seemed to be so damn interested with your life. There's always something wrong, people just can't get enough of you, if you're the type who likes to dress up, those morons will say "Oh, here goes budak gedik, konon style" and so on. You see, here's a very nice quote for you

"When people are trying to bring you down, that could only mean one thing - you are above them"

It's true. EVERY TIME a bitch or whoever that is, trying to bring me down, tear me apart, I forced myself to think that there are no better reasons than this - you're trying to bring me down because I am so much better than you. DUH.


Get a life and identity, fix that personality.

Note to self: Be glad when someone admires you enough to want to be like you. that doesn't happen often.